11-01-2016, 02:21 AM
[MENTION=20938]Gideon[/MENTION] and I are in a D/s relationship. I.e. Gideon is my Dominant in our relationship. I am his submissive.
I am not, in day to day life (or in the bedroom), a submissive person. Or, I never had been prior to meeting Gideon. I react differently to him than I have anyone else though, and with him my reaction is inherently and immediately submissive in nature.
For us, it's more than just who is in control in the bedroom. It's about who is the boat, and who is the anchor. It's about authority and responsibility. It's about trust, and letting go.
And it's about him taking me to an endorphin fueled high during sex, then being the rock that keeps me safe while I'm in that vulnerable headspace, and then helping me through the inevitable crash (and even more vulnerable headspace) that comes after.
It's about support, and trust.
I am not, in day to day life (or in the bedroom), a submissive person. Or, I never had been prior to meeting Gideon. I react differently to him than I have anyone else though, and with him my reaction is inherently and immediately submissive in nature.
For us, it's more than just who is in control in the bedroom. It's about who is the boat, and who is the anchor. It's about authority and responsibility. It's about trust, and letting go.
And it's about him taking me to an endorphin fueled high during sex, then being the rock that keeps me safe while I'm in that vulnerable headspace, and then helping me through the inevitable crash (and even more vulnerable headspace) that comes after.
It's about support, and trust.
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