What does being submissive me to you?

[Justme]

When I speak if submission, I'm not saying I give up 100% complete control. I still know how to entice my guy and go for what I want. I know how to make him work harder by not giving in so easily. I'm not into chains and whips, but I do like a good grip around the throat and a guy who knows how he wants it, when he wants it, wherever he wants it (privately, if course). I ain't with being slapped, beat and degraded! Outside the bedroom, I like my guy to have some stern to him... Be a boss! No bitchiness or whining.