What does being submissive me to you?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Submissive means you let the other person take the lead and be in charge. Yeah there should be limits, but where that line is drawn depends on the couple.

I have seen "broken subs" who need a man to basically tell them when to go take a dump in order to function. Then I have seen strong subs who flap their mouth at every turn. They eventually give in to the wisdom and strength of their partner.

Basically I submit and am passive to the orders of a male. This wasn't true of ALL of my relationships, I lknow how to be dominate and take control... and have in a few relationships.

If you are caving in to all things, or worse need a partner who does all the decision making without you complaining or standing up, that is a problematic situation. There are limits, healthy limits that a couple need to decide.

ALL relationships have dom/sub aspects. More often than not the couple figure out who is dominate in one are and who dominates in the other. IF there are more situations where on dominates then their is submission.

Then there is the whole BDSM sub/Dom situation. But I won't take you there... today.