Think I came on too strong, what next?

[artyboy]

Well in my case guys who are both far away and working two jobs... I mean I get it I understand but how am I supposed to be more than a pen pal? I don't mind at all making friend but someone who's 60 miles away in another state working two jobs probably will never have the time to meet me, even if I did all the driving and frankly I am tired of being the one to do all the driving. Then I end up volunteering to pay for dinner and then realize I just screwed myself.

I once drove all the way to Morristown, TN...which is more-less a 3 hour drive for me. I get there meet the guy (who didn't look like he did online...figures right?) and go to dinner at some run of the mill Asian restaurant and while things were eh so-so at the end of it all he had the nerve to say "So who's getting this?" as in who's paying for dinner! It's one thing when you drive across town or something but 3 hours of driving going across pretty much all of the smoky mountains is a bit much and expect me to even pay my half of dinner...

Hmmm I'm not the only one that has happened to then.