11-02-2016, 06:32 PM
Dan1980 Wrote:Hi guys I have a date on Friday, I have been chatting to him on the phone for the last few weeks and we have been getting on ok! I have a tendency to be clingy due to being hurt in the past and I don't want to scare him off. I have mentioned this before when he doesn't text back I go into overdrive and think the worse. I am trying not to text him today as he's on a 12 hour shift. I like him a lot but deep down I know I will ruin it.
Don't worry... Although that is easier said than done. With me it is really a matter of NOT thinking about it.
Try not to think so much it being a date, just treat it like hanging out with a friend or something.
Anyway, that's about the best I can do, it is hard to get over the anxiety and fear, but just look at in a different way might help ease things.
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