11-02-2016, 06:54 PM
As far as the texting goes. I often work 12 hour shifts and I'm usually too busy to even look at texts until later. It's not that I don't like the guy who's texting or that I'm not interested in him or don't want to talk to him. It's just that I'm on the job and people are expecting me to pay attention and do the stuff I need to do. A guy who understands that and doesn't push it earns a lot of points with me.
I know it's hard, but you need to try to get past the "I'm going to ruin it" mentality before it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Try to put it in perspective. I get that it's hard to feel confident when you've been hurt before, but you need to try to relax a bit and decide that you're going to have fun.
I know it's hard, but you need to try to get past the "I'm going to ruin it" mentality before it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Try to put it in perspective. I get that it's hard to feel confident when you've been hurt before, but you need to try to relax a bit and decide that you're going to have fun.