How Do You Feel About Monogamy?

[TwisttheLeaf]

So you never dated anyone else, try on other trousers BEFORE you met him?

He's not saying he hasn't dated before me, only that he hasn't found an interest in any others -since- we have been together.

Monogamy is yet one more fairy-tale instead of fact. Its a thing we wish for, such as witches who can bake and serve up tasty oven roasted chilren (yum yum), but doesn't actually take place (dammit, I made stuffing tonight, no young flesh to dine upon with it, had to settle for chicken... again).

Few couples stay together for life. Few - very few.

I disagree, (obviously). Which is kind of funny to me, because prior to meeting Gid, I'd held some skepticism about it.

That said, monogamy isn't about being together for life. It's about being monogamous with your partner for however long you are with them. It's about being honest when it's time to move on instead of fucking around behind their back (or not behind their back). There's no life sentence to monogamy.