Fobo

[Dan1980]

I get that self confidence helps but I think there is way more to it than that...

I always feel like I am a compromise, or the other way around, like someone can find someone "better"

Keep in mind its not like I am in some sort of relationship with anyone but I can just talk to someone and I get maybe...two days? A week and then they stop talking, or I get put into the "friend zone."

If could feel any more mediocre....

If it is money, someone has more of it. If it is looks, someone is better looking. If it is personality, someone is more charming.

Doesn't seem to matter what I try, even if I just be myself...never good enough for anyone.

I know what you mean. I am always told things will get better, but they don't.