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Ohhh, I've had a similar train of thought, from a different source, though.

It is very easy, oh so easy to fall into this game. I get you. I get why you can feel like this.

Dating is just cruel. That's just the reality. I mean, it's awesome for some people. Some people don't even have to lift a fucking finger to get someone!!!! Others just draw in guy after guy by..I don't know, looks, personality, whatever.

I know a guy who now doesn't talk to me because he's a fucking egomaniac and I don't really like that (the fucker), who's entire mindset about dating was "I'm good looking so I can get people, and therefore I will get guys and when I'm bored I'll dump them for someone else". And he did just that. A lot.

Some guys have all the luck. No effort, no pain, no consequences. I'm rambling, I know, but when met with reality it is so easy to feel your sel confidence erode rapidly when you're not one of those guys I mentioned.


But the thing is, Axle, that IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO FILL ANYONE ELSE'S EXPECTATIONS. Or them filling yours.

You are you and believe it or not you will be "it" for one or more guys out there. Maybe they are thinking the exact same thing as you do right now. The way to go is to simply increase the chances of collision so the reaction can happen. That means, *cringes*, to keep trying, to keep exposing yourself to hurt and failure. But if it happens, none of that will matter.

You have skills, traits and features that are yours alone, plenty of those traits will be just right for someone else, but first and foremost they ahve to be just right for you! Meaning, your self worth shouldn't be measured in terms of what other think or expect from you, but on what YOU have achieved for YOURSELF.