When did you realise you were gay, bisexual, lesbian, transgrander or pansexual

[MajorasMasc]

I didn't realize it until the last year of college/university. Due to having a... different teenage experience than most I had no interesting in sex/dating at all until college. I thought I was into girls but after nearly a year of just really awkward dates, I realized I was just not interested. That's also when I figured out I liked dudes. I wasn't completely sure but I tried going on dates with dudes and I was just so much more into it. It definitely helps that I was a huge supporter of the community before I realized I was part of it. I never had any self hate due to the gay thing and it didn't take me very long to come out. I surprisingly didn't get any hate from anyone on campus (of only 1100 students) even though I was in a fraternity.