Playful flirting

[JCasey]

Not really.

My gaydar isn't that good. Don't want to flirt with random guys, in case they'd beat me

I can usually pick out the ones who will be receptive to some casual flirting. Sometimes it is a look, or in the case of the busboy, he was outright flirting with me first. He was pretty good at it for a high school sophomore. With the young guys, it is a case of being friendly and letting them know that they are not the only gay guys out there. I do NOT play in the sandbox, but I do like to say "hiiiiii" as I pass by. If I were actually flirting with intent, there would be NO questioning the intent, TRUST ME. After 36 years in the closet, I am not going to be misunderstood if I am in fact interested in someone.