02-17-2017, 03:19 PM
Sex is not an unimportant part of a relationship and it is a relationship you want, you said.
Because it is important, and not a casual hookup where sex is the goal, it deserves a pre-sex conversation. It shouldn't be a big deal and you shouldn't be panicking about it. If you are mature enough for sex, then you should be mature enough to talk about it.
You like him a lot, so offer him your friendship, your time, your care and stop worrying about the sexual part. Since you are dating, he knows sex is likely to be part of the equation, If he is interested in you, he probably wants it as much as you do. He'll either tell you he wants to go slowly and wait awhile or he will whip out his dick. You have to be in agreement.
Because it is important, and not a casual hookup where sex is the goal, it deserves a pre-sex conversation. It shouldn't be a big deal and you shouldn't be panicking about it. If you are mature enough for sex, then you should be mature enough to talk about it.
You like him a lot, so offer him your friendship, your time, your care and stop worrying about the sexual part. Since you are dating, he knows sex is likely to be part of the equation, If he is interested in you, he probably wants it as much as you do. He'll either tell you he wants to go slowly and wait awhile or he will whip out his dick. You have to be in agreement.