What is the best male perfume / cologne can you recommend?

[Cuddly]

That's not fair, you are generalizing the thing you dislike.

I do agree that some people wear it like as if they showered with it, but that's not how it should be worn.

Yes!
My personal favourites are Gaultier's "Le Male" and D&G's... pour hommé? It doesn't really have a name... I think. Both are very unique and quite powerful. Especially Gaultier's. Overusing that would be easy and potentially fatal.
I have a huge selection of scents.