Hi there

[baristajedi]

Hello, [MENTION=24452]baristajedi[/MENTION], and to GaySpeak.
Your story is quite complex, and I hope that you feel much better now that the truth is out. I hope your girlfriend and you will be able to bring up your daughter in a way that shows all sorts of sexualities and forms of romance exist. She may find it a little hard during her adolescence but with the right support around you, and her dad, hopefully, she'll be able to be the best person possible. I'm sure it's more important that her mother is living happily in a relationship that is stable.

Oh and, just so you don't feel you have no place here (which of course you have mile don't be put off by the few threads that are about mostly male beauty (it's not porn but well, you know, we like a good looking man). Feel free to start your own threads or contribute your photos if you are interested. Some here seem to think that it'll be a deterrent to people who don't know the site. Please stay and don't feel pushed aside by those threads, just ignore them.

Thanks for the welcome

I do feel much better now that I'm living my life more true to who I am and what I need. My girlfriend also has 2 boys, almost the same age as my daughter, and we're hoping to raise them all to feel more at home in themselves than we did growing up, and to show them the normalcy of our relationship, as well as all sorts of relationships, sexuality, and identities. It's really wonderful to see the openness that kids have… my daughter already tells me she hopes she can have two mummies, and she wants me to marry a woman (this came out of some conversations about different families and relationships).

We actually have a really amazing lgbt support system in our city, and I'm sure in the future, we'll be taking the kids to the rainbow families group…. I'm hoping we can build a great support system for them.

I don't mind male beauty threads, ha I won't be adding or viewing them much I'm sure but why wouldn't you guys want to post about beautiful men? That's to be expected… I won't bore you all with my female crushes, ha. No one here wants to see them lol