Hi there

[Alvin]

Hi again

Being with a woman feels very different to me than being with a man. It feels more natural, complete...I have more desire, warmth, emotional pull, emotional openness. We communicate better, understand each other better, we're more honest. I feel we see and admire each other as more full people than I've felt with a male/female relationship. We admire each other's strength, see and appreciate each other's beauty in a more substantial way than men seem to with me in the past. Being with a man always felt like there were a lot of games as well.

I agree with what you say about gender....so much if it comes from the way culture tells us we should see gender. Do you feel on some level that you don't fit into society's definition of gender?

I think sexuality for some is fluid; perhaps you have some romantic feelings for this girl? Then again, maybe there is just a lot of emotional chemistry and intimacy, but no sexual interest. I say embrace it, just enjoy it

In terms of my appearance, I can add a pic, I don't mind (if I can figure out how to) - my hair is my natural colour. But I've dyed it many times!

I LOVE ellen

What celebrities do oh admire? Are there any gay male celebrities you identify with?



Gonna try for a pic.... maybe need to attach it as a file, not sure it will work...

Hi, baristajedi. How do you enjoy this forum so far? Sorry for the reaaaaaaaaaaally delayed reply as I was having some ups and downs. Shit happens.

I was taunted (not bullied for sure) by a few of my classmates back in middle school, where they made fun of me since I was not that masculine. I wouldn't hold grudge against any of them when I looked back, for we all are brainwashed by the idea that men should be blah blah blah.. We are all victims of this naturalized sexual and gender regime. Now I tend to believe that all men are of both sexes (maybe more than just two as i don't want to fall into binary opposition). This reminds me of a quote from The Heart Is a Lonely Hunter, saying that.

By nature all people are of both sexes. So that marriage and the bed is not all by any means. The proof? Real youth and old age. Because often old men’s voices grow high and reedy and they take on a mincing walk. And old women sometimes grow fat and their voices get rough and deep and they grow dark little mustaches.

What do you think of this one?

Speaking of gay male celebrities, I can't really think of one right now. Let me think... hum... Tim Cook? LOL. I am just a big Apple fanboy.



I like you haircut. It looks fresh.