Why did I get ghosted?

[kai35]

I feel like it is worth inviting him to get together again. You have nothing to lose, you still have some interest in him, and given the limited dating pool where you are, passively waiting for someone to respond to a banal text seems like a losing strategy. Rather than leap to conclusions now, pursue it further and see what happens.

He could well be thinking that your initial reluctance to sex indicates your lack of interest in him. Who knows, there's so much possibility for misunderstanding at this stage of getting to know someone.

You rarely get what you don't pursue in life.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Thanks. I'm probably just going to lay low and see if he initiates conversation again. If he's interested, he will. At this point, I'm just chalking it up to confusion with regards to his ex as that's the only thing that makes sense in my head right now. That just has to work itself out with time.