Virgo
06-04-2017, 07:46 PM
I'd agree with Camfer Stu, you may not be in the right place at the moment, and that's is what is holding you back. It is a big risk to the friendship to go down the route of something more, is it a risk you are willing to take in the long run? Aside from timing, does everything else feel right in taking things further?
It seems like he is aware that it might not be the right time for you. Currently, he is a good friend, so why not talk this through with him? Let him know about your fears that the relationship as it is would be at risk? Communicating is key as ever, ok, it may not the most romantic start to a potential relationship, but these things are better out in the open.
Naturally, you still feel guilty in regards to your wife. As much of a rock and a legend that she has been so far through this, it would be difficult to have a relationship whilst still living under the same roof. I completely understand your reservations, but as with everything, there is always risk, but potentially a big reward.
It seems like he is aware that it might not be the right time for you. Currently, he is a good friend, so why not talk this through with him? Let him know about your fears that the relationship as it is would be at risk? Communicating is key as ever, ok, it may not the most romantic start to a potential relationship, but these things are better out in the open.
Naturally, you still feel guilty in regards to your wife. As much of a rock and a legend that she has been so far through this, it would be difficult to have a relationship whilst still living under the same roof. I completely understand your reservations, but as with everything, there is always risk, but potentially a big reward.
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