06-15-2017, 12:30 PM
[MENTION=21957]Darius[/MENTION] - Oh, he's off the list all right...as he was leaving, my daughter made a little shooing gesture with her hand and said, "All gone!" ...lol that about sums it up.
[MENTION=17709]sillyboy86[/MENTION] [MENTION=20359]Cuddly[/MENTION] - I know that it's a huge deal and I don't expect guys to bond with her instantly...I do expect at least a modicum of courtesy, however...ignoring her, talking over her and showing visible annoyance at her presence doesn't cut it for me...he knew she would be there, I made it clear in advance that I'd need to attend to her...he was nicer to my dogs! If we'd been going out I would have gotten a babysitter, but he was coming to my house. If a guy said to me that he doesn't know anything about kids and feels awkward around them, I'd understand that and give him plenty of time and space.... But don't say, "Oh, no problem, it's cool" and then treat her like she's an annoying mosquito.
[MENTION=22948]TigerLover[/MENTION]- he's 30. And I appreciate your honesty...if more people said what theyt really feel, we'd all be a lot better off.
[MENTION=17709]sillyboy86[/MENTION] [MENTION=20359]Cuddly[/MENTION] - I know that it's a huge deal and I don't expect guys to bond with her instantly...I do expect at least a modicum of courtesy, however...ignoring her, talking over her and showing visible annoyance at her presence doesn't cut it for me...he knew she would be there, I made it clear in advance that I'd need to attend to her...he was nicer to my dogs! If we'd been going out I would have gotten a babysitter, but he was coming to my house. If a guy said to me that he doesn't know anything about kids and feels awkward around them, I'd understand that and give him plenty of time and space.... But don't say, "Oh, no problem, it's cool" and then treat her like she's an annoying mosquito.
[MENTION=22948]TigerLover[/MENTION]- he's 30. And I appreciate your honesty...if more people said what theyt really feel, we'd all be a lot better off.