06-18-2017, 01:23 AM
meridannight Wrote:Yeah, it would definitely depend on the age of the kid, and how much I liked the guy. I am not drawn to kids like most people, and don't want them myself. So, I would definitely have some issues with this. But if I really liked the man, I would be willing to try.
[MENTION=24520]Pyromancer[/MENTION] -- what happened to the guy you were in a relationship with before? You left GS once (you said something about your man not liking you using this site, if I remember correct). What happened to him?
You're talking about my husband...him not wanting me on this site was another red flag that I shouldn't have ignored, he was trying to isolate me. He wanted a child badly...until he got one...then, he resented the time and attention I gave her. He became emotionally and then physically abusive and we separated. I was awarded full physical custody of our daughter...he was granted supervised visitation, but fucked it up royally, so now has no access to her. The court ordered him to do certain things before he can reapply for visitation, but he hasn't bothered. So my daughter and I are currently living a peaceful life and things are much better...it got pretty bad at times, but it was all worth it because it gave me my daughter.
BTW, you have a good memory, that was around 2 years ago when I left!