Am I ready?

[InbetweenDreams]

I recently got scruff and it does look a hell of a lot better than grindr, but before I made my profile I started thinking is this the right time to date? I do want something special in my life but I'm not satisfied with where I am in life, I'm still working on finding the right job/career and I don't make a lot at the moment. I do plan on going back to school (again ) or getting some certifications, I worked my way through school before though and still made time for friends and parties. I'm also not officially out even though at this point I don't care if people find out.

So did you guys wait to get to a certain point in life first or did you just start looking?

I mean it sounds like you're ready for something. If you're looking for a hook-up or FWB then the apps are fine with that. People have and do find their partners on there too and sometimes those flings can become something. If you are not really wanting to do hook-ups and such then you might look at different apps that focus on dating. Facebook dating doesn't seem all that bad and depending on where you are POF (Plenty of fish) is ok.

As far as relationships go, they money thing can be a bit tricky, but it is isn't a reason not to date and not a reason not to date someone. I would rather date someone who is more satisfied with the work they do rather than someone who just makes a lot of money. Relationships work not because both people make a lot of money and are financially stable, it is all personality and emotions. I also think if you have kept yourself off the market that you should probably have some fun, figure out what things you like or don't like both sexually and in guys. Easier said than done, at any rate, if it feels right that is probably a good thing.