12-30-2020, 07:15 PM
I really don't know. About 15 years into my job bartending a friend of mine who I knew for at least 15 years - maybe longer - told me one night "You know - I don't know what it is but you don't seem gay to me"
Me: HUH? WTF are you talking about? You have known all of my boyfriends and watched me make out with them at parties and I work in a gay bar - what ARE you talking about? He couldn't figure out why
I have a feminine side though - my feminine side is very much like Sigourney Weaver in Aliens - and I would wear pants and no makeup
So - I really don't know. I am not sure how other people see me.
Me: HUH? WTF are you talking about? You have known all of my boyfriends and watched me make out with them at parties and I work in a gay bar - what ARE you talking about? He couldn't figure out why
I have a feminine side though - my feminine side is very much like Sigourney Weaver in Aliens - and I would wear pants and no makeup
So - I really don't know. I am not sure how other people see me.