02-09-2021, 05:53 PM
I will second @eastofeden's advice on that. It is very easy to fall into the trap of desperation, being overly attached to someone who you're trying to date can get ugly. I know all too well from my own experience.
The other thing I didn't catch in your post @soulfulriver is you said "are people [b]meant[//b] to be alone"
I don't think people have pre-defined destinies. I personally don't buy into that we are here, individually, for a specific purpose or that we are destined to become XY or Z, or that we're destined to be with someone or not. I do not believe our lives are predetermined.
The other thing I didn't catch in your post @soulfulriver is you said "are people [b]meant[//b] to be alone"
I don't think people have pre-defined destinies. I personally don't buy into that we are here, individually, for a specific purpose or that we are destined to become XY or Z, or that we're destined to be with someone or not. I do not believe our lives are predetermined.
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