Some Self-Reflections

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Taking it easy, you could suggest that for your next meeting it’s his responsibility to pick places to eat and activities, discuss things with you beforehand (so you could veto stuff you absolutely don’t want to do) and then organize the get together. He’d have to show some initiative, present his picks and see how it turns out.

Don’t get into him being more attached to you than vice versa, unless he’s ready to pick out wedding rings. What I remember from my early relationships is that I was in love with having a boyfriend, but not the boyfriend.