Easy to get into an relationship?

[Chase]

Don't be tricked by social media into thinking most gay men have boyfriends and that it's easy.  It just appears that way because you can't always tell if a single man is gay or straight. I've noticed that "gaydar" is more or less a myth.

It can be easy to "get into" a relationship. It's finding one and making one last that's hard. All of the boyfriends I had, we just naturally fell for each other like magic. It's just that it was a rare occurrence when another guy who was my type was looking for something more than sex or friends. Then once those relationships naturally formed, they start off easy but reach a filter point that tests whether it's truly going to be "forever" or not.

Don't stress over not having one or not. All of my relationships have been formed when I least suspected them. For whatever reason, there's just something about being content with being single that's makes you more attractive, I guess because most people don't want someone who's needy and desperate. Don't start a relationship that's obviously headed towards disaster, but don't let the fear of heartbreak stop you from finding a partner, either. Life sucks but sometimes having your heart broken is just part of the human experience. It's better than the alternative.

Myself, I'm pooped out with relationships. If a guy sweeps me off my feet or I find someone I think is worth it, I'll give it a shot, but I could go to the grave single and not care. Once you had a couple relationships it becomes a sort of "been there, done that" and you stop obsessing over it.