Leo
11-23-2021, 03:13 AM
Hey @Say welcome to GS. I think the big thing is not to worry so much about labels. Sexual orientation is more like shades of gray than something that is black and white. Think of it as clicking with another human being.
That being said, it can be a bit of an existential kerfuffle let's say. Because I have heard so many times from people who said "I just KNEW you were gay!" and that we have to adhere to everyone else's expectations. I'm 35 and I relate to all this. I worry about not being able to ever settle down, find the right person, having kids and so on. I think it is far more important to simply do what you want to do. If you find someone, whether they're male or female and you connect with that person then you've won. And whether you're looking long term or just something more temporary, just do what feels right. Nothing is wrong with liking both men, women or anyone for that matter.
That being said, it can be a bit of an existential kerfuffle let's say. Because I have heard so many times from people who said "I just KNEW you were gay!" and that we have to adhere to everyone else's expectations. I'm 35 and I relate to all this. I worry about not being able to ever settle down, find the right person, having kids and so on. I think it is far more important to simply do what you want to do. If you find someone, whether they're male or female and you connect with that person then you've won. And whether you're looking long term or just something more temporary, just do what feels right. Nothing is wrong with liking both men, women or anyone for that matter.
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