11-05-2022, 06:21 PM
Balance between chaos and order...tradition...rebellion, fun within or lack of rules and conventions, nothing is ever truly static.
I like that the tradition of left hand ring finger is just as much mine as a gay man as any hetero. The fact that I dare wear other rings on other appendages can certainly be a fun or daring statement or signal.
In the end, regardless of what I wear or where (I'm thinking naked as a jaybird), "if you want to know, just ask" is the way I'd deal with it. And, "otherwise, mind yo business."
I like that the tradition of left hand ring finger is just as much mine as a gay man as any hetero. The fact that I dare wear other rings on other appendages can certainly be a fun or daring statement or signal.
In the end, regardless of what I wear or where (I'm thinking naked as a jaybird), "if you want to know, just ask" is the way I'd deal with it. And, "otherwise, mind yo business."
Life's too short to miss an opportunity to show your love and affection!