How can I become comfortable being gay?

[MysteriousBoy]

Firstly congrats for coming out to people!
It sounds to me like maybe a counseller would be the best option? If you're really uncomfortable with it and it's really affecting you definitely go and see a counseller who can help you understand and come to terms with your sexuality. There's no shame in seeing a counseller

Also why not try going to one of them groups...Ive heard some people mention it but can't think what it is? Basically one of them groups for Lesbian/Gay people where you all meet each other, get to know each other and talk about stuff etc?

Hope you sort something out soon, and get over your personal shame. You deserve to be happy and proud!