How can I become comfortable being gay?

[marshlander]

Hello Hellie and welcome. It sounds like the fundamental thing might be to try getting out a bit more and just making a few friends. If you find a few of those just happen to be gay, bisexual or lesbian that would be a bit of a bonus.

I found talking to a counsellor helped me find the language that was not in my vocabulary to help me come better to terms with my sexuality.

Best wishes.