Is this right?

[yal]

I personally am against cheating no matter what. . . but that ethical point is a personal issue. You need to do what YOU believe is right.

Just be prepared to have to face it one day. The man you fool around with on the side could get pissed at you and inform your wife. Plus you never know who will find out and inform your wife. It's happened to many of my friends that thought they could keep it quiet.

OH and make sure if you do sleep with a man (or a woman), to make sure you use protection. You don't want to give a "gift" to your wife that could shatter her physical health as well as her mental health.

That's another thing i am worried about! you know? the actual sex part!
Since i have never done it and know it to be uneasy even for a woman,so that is about 60% of the reason why i have not gone streight to a guy and made friends,that's why i want an older guy that's why.... etc.