What does this mean?

[fenris]

I think that means that you´ve to find your own way ... normal .. whats normal ? Lets say that all things are normal you and a partner wants to do without hurt another - in mind and/or body.
And you will see, that you´re only at the beginning to explore yourself.. your wishes... whatever.
Sometimes you want to be a part how acts - with a girl .. and sometimes you are a part who wants to feel safe... and loved - with a guy.