09-05-2007, 03:50 AM
On some level she knows. If she knows you as well as you believe, she probably has an idea.
Personally, i would tell her before you leave. It gives you time to talk, plus if she needs some time to think and adjust... it puts distance between you and puts less pressure on her. There won't be an akward run ins...
PLUS, if she is really a friend she'll get over it and move on. If she doesn't, well she was not the person you thought she was.
I'm sure she will betrayed in the beginning if she really does carry a flame for you, but I think she will get over it. . . just be there for her and answer her questions and be patient.
Personally, i would tell her before you leave. It gives you time to talk, plus if she needs some time to think and adjust... it puts distance between you and puts less pressure on her. There won't be an akward run ins...
PLUS, if she is really a friend she'll get over it and move on. If she doesn't, well she was not the person you thought she was.
I'm sure she will betrayed in the beginning if she really does carry a flame for you, but I think she will get over it. . . just be there for her and answer her questions and be patient.
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