before or after?

[spotysocks]

If you think she has too many thing in her plate right now i d say it's better to wait. I dont see the urgency of it and she has already an idea that you might be gay , i mean she has thought about it. Give her a few hints if you think it will make things easier and wait and see how things in your life and in the relationship you have with her will go after you move to belgium and act accordingly.

However i think she will take it well if not then fine all the same . People who accept others for what they are and dont judge too harshly are the ones worth keeping.