How do I tell someone I DON'T want sex?

[matty7]

i think i have to agree with Rychard the lionhearts comments, i dont think your gonna find your soul mate on a chat line with guys just askin for sex, and as you said already - the guys seems to have lost interest since you explained your position to him. Wish i could wave a magic wand and give you a solution but i cant, the more people who know your gay though will improve ur chances .....maybe you could let a wider group of people know ur gay in your age group if its safe to do - good luck any way