How do I tell someone I DON'T want sex?

[Ultra]

It's pretty simple and it's effective too. It depends on who you say it to and how you say it to them. You say "no" and "no means no." If he takes it personally, he was really not a great person to begin with. If I was told that "no", I would definitely get a hold of myself, be cool and then never bring it up again. However, many people don't have good willpower like me and some others... they may badger you about sex and that's really a shame.