09-28-2010, 08:20 PM
SlipknotRlZZ Wrote:Why not adoption?
A life with children can be really demanding and I personally think that it is not worth it to give up your freedom just to be proud of your kid. I mean, that's how I see it. Because I can see how my parents don't hve time for themselves AT ALL because of me and my lil sis. Especiallly my lil sis. . And I don't think that it's worth it.
However, if you still ever decide to have kids, I think the best choice would be to adopt a kid that is around 7 or 8.
*g ... I have thought the same as I was in your age .... but I have seen more friends which are very happy with their children then friends which are not. I think its not the time you spend with children ... if I see my mother ...she has had own kids ... stepkids from my father and some kids from -don´t know the name in english- we say youth office .. and she never has had problems with the time .... so we always were a really big family.
For me it seems a bit unfair ... some children or juveniles have parents who don´t care about them, kick them out ..whatever ... and we get absolutely no chance to get a kid.