09-29-2010, 10:52 PM
conechvn Wrote:How 's about going to a poor country to find a surrogate mother and egg donor? That 's way they will never able to take your kid away. As I watched in "Queer as the Folks" it was very sad when they took away Mikey 's child
Because the law is sufficiently robust where I am that I don't need to do that.
So long as I play by the rules I can arrange a surrogate mother here. My boyfriend actually has a couple of lesbian friends that would be happy to help out. If we go the "turkey baster" route (or another informal arrangement) then the biological parents are legally required to support the child unless it is put up for adoption. We can also go the full legal route and use a fertility clinic where everything is legally and medically arranged and planned.