09-30-2010, 02:08 PM
conechvn Wrote:Just doubt about myself lately so I make this poll to find the answer.
The story behinds that is:
Today, I went to a meeting and there was a guy who I felt like he was gay. So I tried to flirt with him a little bit to check it out just for fun :biggrin: but he acted like he did not see it at all. It just made me sad for no reason and started thinking about nonsense stuff. I was considered as good looking or at least cute in Asian community back home but it seems like white/Hispanic/black guys do not think so because no one has had a crush with me for the past 2 years Maybe I am not as tall as some white guys and not that much muscle ( but I am getting there, swear that I had to work my ass out for that) but how 's about cute (
Therefore, I am so doubting about the chance of getting a soul mate in the US I want to hear your opinion to see if I still have any hope.
What a coincidence, white/Hispanic/black guys by the hundreds aren't getting a crush on me either (the fools). Not everyone is going to fall in love with you. You're trying to rush things (and that can be off putting...just saying). There is a gay community there at A&M and College Station, and if that well runs dry then Houston is just down the road (and there is a huge SE Asian community here). Give it some time, you're cuteness won't fade that fast!