10-14-2010, 12:21 AM
Just be upfront with them and tell them how you feel, I have had friends that have been in the same situation and I have as well. Yeah you should always try and be all comfy comfy with them, yet sometimes I think ya just gotta be hardcore with them and tell them who they will be leaving if they act on it and how they will hurt you and other people. Hell describe to them what life would be like without them and how you support them no matter what. Its crazy but it has always worked for me, some have come to me years later and thanked me for being honest with them and not sugarcoating it like some do.