10-11-2010, 08:09 PM
I just read your post...
It seems for me that you have really bad experiences with "partners" you had. There is not a guarantee that you are still together with a partner in 25 Years ... but nobody has this guarantee.... and whats the alternate ? Staying alone... being sad and frustrated ? Thats the wrong way, I think.... nobody takes the risk for you ... but a new or better a good relationship is it worth to take the risk...
Whether you own a house or not, for a partner who truly loves you does not matter. All financial matters in a good relationship doesn´t count.... And I know where I`m talking about.. because I´m at home since my partner knows me ...
I would try to start new ... watching out for a relationship... meeting friends ... whatever... but don´t stay at home and thinking about problems you had with last partner.... or what a partner maybe can think about your financial situation.
Take the risk ... it is it worth ...
It seems for me that you have really bad experiences with "partners" you had. There is not a guarantee that you are still together with a partner in 25 Years ... but nobody has this guarantee.... and whats the alternate ? Staying alone... being sad and frustrated ? Thats the wrong way, I think.... nobody takes the risk for you ... but a new or better a good relationship is it worth to take the risk...
Whether you own a house or not, for a partner who truly loves you does not matter. All financial matters in a good relationship doesn´t count.... And I know where I`m talking about.. because I´m at home since my partner knows me ...
I would try to start new ... watching out for a relationship... meeting friends ... whatever... but don´t stay at home and thinking about problems you had with last partner.... or what a partner maybe can think about your financial situation.
Take the risk ... it is it worth ...