10-21-2010, 02:07 PM
I wouldn't sweat it as much dude, though that's easy for me to say I guess...
I came out properly around the same age after not wanting to admit it, and it is a little more awkward because for the most part you have an increasing amount of expectation waying up against you. But then you're stilll young
and you have a lot of time to get your head around these things. The one thing I always say to bi-curious guys is to experiment but be very careful, it's kinda like starting out all over again. If you do fool around it doesn't make you 'gay' and you have to live on a small gay island away from friends and family forever. Anything you do in your own time is your business.
Allow yourself to enjoy and indulge in your fantasies rather than feeling guilt for them. Negative associations are like stains, they're bitches to get rid of once they're there. So don't let them settle and do some soul-searching
maybe even look around a little. The answers you're looking for are mostly your own.
I came out properly around the same age after not wanting to admit it, and it is a little more awkward because for the most part you have an increasing amount of expectation waying up against you. But then you're stilll young
and you have a lot of time to get your head around these things. The one thing I always say to bi-curious guys is to experiment but be very careful, it's kinda like starting out all over again. If you do fool around it doesn't make you 'gay' and you have to live on a small gay island away from friends and family forever. Anything you do in your own time is your business.Allow yourself to enjoy and indulge in your fantasies rather than feeling guilt for them. Negative associations are like stains, they're bitches to get rid of once they're there. So don't let them settle and do some soul-searching
maybe even look around a little. The answers you're looking for are mostly your own.
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