It's just too much...

[Ultra]

My advice...meet someone in person and have a 3-D date or two. I guess I don't fully understand having a relationship with someone you have never met so I am not sure I have any further advice on the subject.

May I ask...what is the appeal of having a relationship with someone you have never actually met? How can you determine if you really like him or not?...I need to see someone's eyes myself and when I talk to someone I look directly in their eyes almost nonstop...I would be at a complete loss wthout being able to do that...and I like to touch and be touched as well. Do you get a satisfaction from this relationship at all?

Well there is webcamming and that's one way of finding out if you're compatible with the person over the Internet. It worked for myself and my partner (at the time). Before I even saw recent pics of him... my fear was that I wouldn't be attracted to him. Guess what... he was the guy of my dreams and it was amazing.