10-26-2010, 07:14 AM
Hello, and welcome.
Your post has an error that makes undersanding it 30 percent unclear. TV, meaning, transvestite? Meaning, you are having thoughts of making love to a man, and he can be Straight, Gay, or Otherwise?
Well, if you are having thoughts of having sex with a man (or making love) then we have an issue that you may have repressed a while back. There is such a thing as latent homosexuality. It is nothing new, however only you can pinpoint whether this is a lingering desire that has been with you for a while, or a spontaneous, raging feeling that is too strong and strange for you that, you need to question it.
I have an issue with your choice of words. "making love to a man". Are you being truthful with yourself? If TV, is transvestite, does this, according to you, make it a normal desire, and OK to satiate?
My only advice is to question your feelings. Give them the respect they deserve. You may not be a homosexual, you may just want to explore the complex dynamics of your sexuality, and just not repress them any more. However, I do understand the importance of labelling (a sexual identity), and only you can attach one to yourself. Have fun, be safe, and be discreet. Your spouse will appreciate it!
Your post has an error that makes undersanding it 30 percent unclear. TV, meaning, transvestite? Meaning, you are having thoughts of making love to a man, and he can be Straight, Gay, or Otherwise?
Well, if you are having thoughts of having sex with a man (or making love) then we have an issue that you may have repressed a while back. There is such a thing as latent homosexuality. It is nothing new, however only you can pinpoint whether this is a lingering desire that has been with you for a while, or a spontaneous, raging feeling that is too strong and strange for you that, you need to question it.
I have an issue with your choice of words. "making love to a man". Are you being truthful with yourself? If TV, is transvestite, does this, according to you, make it a normal desire, and OK to satiate?
My only advice is to question your feelings. Give them the respect they deserve. You may not be a homosexual, you may just want to explore the complex dynamics of your sexuality, and just not repress them any more. However, I do understand the importance of labelling (a sexual identity), and only you can attach one to yourself. Have fun, be safe, and be discreet. Your spouse will appreciate it!
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