to quote The fly "Help me"

[princealbertofb]

No you are not damned, but it doesn't get any easier, does it? ... Maybe you should be looking in your age range, five years younger or older... then you might find someone longing for the same companionship, someone who's just lost someone, or someone who's just recently divorced, or got out of a straight relationship which they could no longer stand, realising late that they were gay. The children, if any, will have flown the coop by now, and men often reassess their lives at that point. I'm sure there's someone out there longing for the same love that you want to give... and maybe wanting to reciprocate. Keep your eyes and heart sharp. Good luck, Dave.
I'll add this one for the road...