Strip Clubs

[princealbertofb]

So my friends keep texting me, asking me if I’m going out with them to the strip club tonight and I really don’t want go. I personally freakin hate the strip club, I find the whole strip club situation to be extremely uncomfortable. I have only been once back when I first turned 18 and really hated the whole experience. I spent most of the night looking anywhere but stage with the dancing girls, which was strange for me cause when I was 18 I was like way into boobs. It really wasn’t the naked women making uncomfortable it was just the pure weirdness the strip club brings.

What weirdness you say well first off I’m in a dark room with 2 types of men the super drunk and rowdy guy or the super creepy guy that been there since 2 in the afternoon and everyone is drinking and I’m not, an I really don’t know what else to say……I just did not like it. In fact I walked out after the second stage dance because I just didn’t want to be there in a big bad way.

I don't think you need to force yourself to go. I know the friends' pressure is probably strong. Maybe you can tell them that you've reassessed the whole thing and don't enjoy women being on display like cattle. Ask them if they'd like to see their sisters, (or wives) or mothers on display like that... and see if they see your point. You don't have to tell them that you are NOT interested in the female form (especially if you were into boobs, as you said). They may call you a PUSSY, and they are being PUSHY, only one letter's difference. I mean, it's not as if going to the strip club is going to get any of them laid, is it?

As a sideline, you might offer some other kind of entertainment to diffuse the tension of getting squeezed into a situation you don't enjoy, like the Bowling Alley? cinema? just to ease off pressure... Give them an alternative. Not having an alternative will put more pressure on you, unless you can just be your lazy self and can't be bothered. Saying you can't afford it will / might get you an invitation, but won't let you off the hook.