10-30-2010, 09:34 PM
rsconceptions Wrote:Hehe you just echo exactly how I think in life in general.
That is funny...and understandable...because when I read your advice I think along those same lines myself....
Probably because you are a human being, with natural desires. Some of these desires are sexual as well as relational.
Sexual fun is enjoyable, but you beat yourself up afterwards because maybe it means you are a slut and you let your body out too easily...
Why do you NEED someone? Maybe because you are missing something in your life and need a hole filled. It is best to look inward first and ask yourself what exactly is missing, and then decide the best way to go about that.
And also, YOU must define what is ok and what is not ok in your life. Are you happy having whatever sexual fun you are having? Do you say it is ok? Or is it not ok? Never mind what others think, YOU must make your rules. And also, give yourself a break and don't beat yourself. You are a human being, you make mistakes, you do things you want and things you don't want... life is a learning curve.
...I agree with everything you said 100%
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