11-05-2010, 08:15 PM
its a shame some people dont see the beauty in themselves - just try and reasure him he's fine as he is, the media today promotes the myth that skinny is beautiful, thats a lot of pressure for younger people or older really who arent perfectly proportioned, just try buying xxl clothing designer clothing in the high street and you'll see your excluded already and that attitude carries on in lots of things - its natural to be slightly jealeous of the more beautiful people and he just needs that bit of reasurance that he's not those negative things....carry on been a freind,, im not a fan of the tuff love though...telling him he is fat would be counter productive to him