11-16-2010, 07:56 AM
It takes a while to get over someone, I know how you feel about always thinking about him and you probably want to hurry up and get over him but it takes a while. You swim and work out right? Do that, along with whatever other hobbies you have. Get out and meet some new people (not necessarily date, I probably shouldn't have said that )! Do things to get your mind off of him. I hope things go well with that guy you're meeting on Friday. I think just meeting new people and getting out there is the best way to get over someone, it makes you realize that you have other (and possibly better; he should treat you better and you know it.) options.