Painful anal sex

[juk]

Is there a chance that i am not meant to enjoy being penetrated?

Can your partner with a big penis damage you anal tissues or generally harm you?

Also, how does it feel like when being penetrated? Is it a good feeling? Isnt it better to fuck than to get fucked cos even though the prostate gland can be better stimulated from the rear, wouldnt the front be the one that makes you attain the ultimate orgasm?

1/ Well technically nobody is designed for this, but we seem to get around that

2/ Any size can potentially cause damage, the key things are use of lube to ensure things are slipping and sliding and not pulling and tearing, and to make sure your partner whatever his size doesnt just slam away without consideration for how its feeling!

3/ I cant say from experience as I only top, however the mechanics/physiology of anal sex are such that the anus is lined with nerves which, can experience a lot of pleasure - coupled with that you have the prostate gland in a handy position to be stimulated which can cause great pleasure, and can also lead to amazing orgasms.

Take things slowly with you bf, use lube - plenty of lube, and experiment with position. A favoured position for 'newbies' is where you are on top and therefore have control of speed of entry and thrust.
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