Painful anal sex

[ridin_solo88]

Thnx so much for all the useful info guys...Someone told me that the inner muscles need strengthening by fingering and progreesing onto a dildo first. Its surprising how little info there are on these issues; only porn pops up! I know that to him intercourse is important. To me it is not necessary at all. I wonder how things will turn out if we dont end up having sex at all.

It 's a very strong feeling that very difficult to describe. Like he totally owns you, he is in control and you feel safe to let him take the lead and put all of your trust on him. If you want to not have a painful anal sex, you must trust your partner's lead, totally comfortable with him and tell yourself that he knows what he is doing. That way you can be relax and open for him to go inside.

Wow i think im more of a top then...but i guess i believe in both partners being versatile...

Ok, I'm going to be a bit inquisitive here and ask how big is he?

Well hes really thick and ard 20 cm or so. But for me i think a normal sized penis would be really painful as well.