Painful anal sex

[Beaux]

Well I am no expert (lol) but taking it slow is a good start. I gotta tell ya, that for me it was a big chanlenge. I am pretty much a top, but when it came down to it I wanted my partner to feel like he was getting what he needed out of the relationship as well so I relented. OMG it hurt the first time! The second time was no picnic either. After that it steadily got better and now days if the guy turns me on in that way (which strangely I find some guys do) then I really like it. As with everything, practice makes perfect, and it really does have a lot to do with muscle control. lol ya gotta work with it